Relationship Coach Valerie Greene
Attract, re-ignite, and sustain lasting love.
Stop fighting and experience love, intimacy, and passion again. I help couples stop fighting and fall in love again; I help women inspire their husband or boyfriend to deeper love and intimacy; and I help single women attract an emotionally available man who’s ready to commit.
Where are you right now?
Choose your path and get a free gift to start with.
Stop fighting and start connecting
Get my free video training “3 Steps to Stop Fighting and Start Connecting.” Discover my proven solutions to problems like withdrawing and nagging, ending recurring conflict, and 7 steps to save your marriage.
Inspire deeper love and commitment
Get my free e-guide that unveils the simple, proven system to inspire your boyfriend or husband to deeper love, intimacy, and commitment to make you happy, and in turn make him happy!
Attract and keep the right man
Get my free e-guide on how to date consciously, attract and keep an emotionally available man who’s ready to commit, no matter your age or how many times you’ve failed in the past!
Do you feel anxious in love?
If you worry he’s pulling away, replay texts, and feel needy no matter how hard you try not to, there’s nothing wrong with you. Learn what’s really happening and how to feel secure.
Meet Valerie
Client success stories
Real clients, in their own words. Names and some details changed to protect privacy.
“We fell back in love after 8 years!”
“When we first came to see Valerie, we’d been married for 8 years and everything looked ok on the outside, but inside we felt distant, angry, and didn’t even want to be in the same room with each other… It felt like the ice melted; warm and caring feelings began to flow between us.”
“Now I feel connected, loved and cherished every day!”
“When I first contacted Valerie, my husband seemed annoyed or angry with me often. I’d get defensive, and we wound up fighting or feeling distant most of the time… Then we get to work as a team to find win-win solutions to conflicts instead of being in competition with each other.”
“Now I met an emotionally available man!”
“After giving my Dismissive Avoidant partner a whole year to step up to the intimacy plate, I said good-bye. Soon after, with my profile up for only two days, I met another sweet, mature, emotionally available man!… I’m making better choices now.”
Relationship tips
Fresh from the blog.
How Anger Brought Us Closer: A Relationship Story
Most of us learned that anger breaks connection. But what if anger, expressed a different way, could actually bring you closer?
How to Help Your Partner Heal (Without Being Their Therapist)
Knowing what healing in partnership looks like can help you recognize the right person when they show up.
Beyond the Roses: The Real Work of Connection
True intimacy is built in the quiet, everyday moments. What it actually takes to foster a safe and deeply connected partnership.
Free 90-minute session
Breakthrough to Lasting Love
Do you want to take your relationship to the next level? Are you ready for the life together that you dream of? Let’s talk about where you are, where you want to be, and co-create a plan for the love you want.
Hi, I’m Valerie
Relationship Coach for women and couples since 2005. Trained in EFT, Gottman, and IFS, the most results-oriented couples methods, plus parts work and somatic healing. Happily married: I practice every tool I teach in my own marriage, daily.