I am single and was looking to manifest a partner. I kept repeating this very painful pattern of going on one or two dates with someone, and feeling disappointed when they wouldn’t call me back. Also men I find attractive didn’t seem to go for me, except for a casual fling. I felt hopeless about moving forward with someone beyond a date and into a relationship. Valerie did not prescribe and forcefully advise or try to ‘fix me’. Rather, she approaches the work holistically, raising my awareness about why my pattern might be presenting itself and introduces daily self-love practices that lead me to have a stronger connection with myself.
Valerie helped me build self-trust and self-acceptance, which is the key to letting down my walls and having a trusting relationship with another. I learned that I was pushing men away to keep myself safe. Learning to trust myself is the only way I could trust another and be more open on dates.
Valerie is practical as well, not only teaching self-love practices but giving detailed advice before and after dates, checking in about how the dates are going and empowering me about the decisions I am making while engaging with men.
She has taught me to listen to my body and hold a clear boundary when I do not want to sleep with someone, in a playful and gentle way, so as not to scare away a decent man.
Even my darkest emails or sessions were not too much for Valerie. She is a generous coach, easygoing and very approachable. She has a lot of knowledge and wisdom but is not intimidating in the way she delivers that knowledge to you.
I’d highly recommend working with Valerie if you want to experience deeper connection with your partner, or to manifest a satisfying relationship (for singles). Valerie can teach you how to love yourself enough to make space for that real connection with another.
-Nancy B. Suren