“Thanks, Valerie, for all your wonderful support last year. After giving my Dismissive Avoidant partner a whole year to step up to the intimacy plate, I said good-bye. Soon after, with my profile up for only two days, I met another sweet, mature, emotionally available man! We’ve been talking every day, 2-3 hours, have a video date once per week, having deep, emotionally connected conversations, and I already spent two lovely weeks with him. Next, he’s coming to visit me to see how I live and whether we are ready for “Commitment” and blending our lives.
This has been a deep, intense, and personal cleansing journey and I have you to thank for being the spark that woke me up to the “Attachment Styles”, especially Dismissive Avoidant, unavailable men that I kept attracting. I’m making better choices now and have had immediate success with real intimacy and love. You are a blessing, thank you! — KW”