Does it seem that the man you’re with doesn’t want to give you what you ask for?
If you’ve asked for what you need and he doesn’t give it to you, it might might be because he perceives your requests as demands and he feels controlled.
Or if you don’t ask him for what you need, he might assume he’s doing enough already. Often women allow resentment to build and then when she finally does ask for what she needs, he resists her request, and she assumes he doesn’t care!
What actually happened is not that he doesn’t care, but he is resisting her resentful attitude and the picture that her complaints are painting of him of being unsupportive.So it’s important to ask for what you want before you let resentment build, with an attitude of collaboration. You can share your preferences and desires, and ask what he needs in order for that to work for him. Then he feels like you’re on his team and he’ll be empowered to give you more support!
I share exactly how to do this in my latest interview with Helena Hart.
In this interview, you’ll learn:
- How to ask for what you want so he’s inspired to want to give it to you 🙂
- 2 step-by-step processes: one for simple requests and one for your deeper needs
- How this works differently when you’re dating vs. a committed relationship
- How to ask for what you want in the bedroom 🙂
You can watch it here:
With love,
Valerie
Valerie
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