There’s an unconscious part of us that attracts the same pattern over and over again, and once you shine the light of loving awareness on these patterns so you can make different choices, step out of the pattern, and once and for all attract a man who’s loving, available, and wants to sweep you off your feet!
Patterns, like limiting beliefs, were put in place at one point to keep us from feeling painful feelings. We also tend to attract partners who were like our parents or caretakers, because our unconscious mind wants us to repeat the past in an attempt to achieve a “happy ending” this time around.
For example, Kim came to me feeling hopeless! She told me that after a few weeks when things started to feel really good with a man, she would do something to mess it up.
She would ask him quickly where he felt the relationship was going, or she would get needy and if he didn’t call she would find herself saying things she wish she could take back. She was always setting up hoops for the man to jump through and sooner or later her would miss a hoop and she would get angry and push him away!
I took her through the unmet need discovery process I teach in my 5 Week Group Coaching Program and we identified that her mother had done the same thing to her; setting up hoops to get her mother’s approval and when she missed a hoop, her mother would be angry with her. She was subsequently very self critical and judgmental of others.
Once she learned how to treat herself with more empathy and compassion, she was able to calm herself down instead of being so judgmental of her boyfriend, and she learned how to communicate her desires in a way that men can hear them, so they weren’t pushed away.
She stopped setting up hoops and kept things lighter longer and soon her Mr. Amazing showed up out of the blue! She understood when it was time to have the relationship conversation and how to do it so that she did not scare him off. (I teach that in week 5 🙂 They got engaged and moved in together…all within a year! She also got a big promotion! When you reprogram old patterns from childhood they impact you in all areas of your life.
So NO more settling! You deserve soul-shaking love!
What is really going to support you to reprogram you patterns quickly is the coaching support you get directly from me, in the group and personally.
As part of the Attract and Keep Soul Shaking Love 5 Week Group Coaching Program you will get daily support directly from me in an online community, plus weekly group coaching calls. This is over a $500 value and the course is just $197 dollars FOR THE NEXT 2 DAYS ONLY.
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With Love
Valerie
PS: Can you relate to Kim? Schedule a free call with me and let me take you through my proven process to create a customized plan to attract and keep your mr. Right.. No matter your age, what you look like or how many times you have been hurt- You can do this!